Our Story: Why We Do What We Do

After witnessing the devastation of family law litigation for over 15 years, we knew there was a better way.

CFLS was born from a calling to help families heal instead of hurt.

Our Mission

To provide families facing legal disputes with a peaceful, cost-effective alternative to litigation that prioritizes children's mental well-being, preserves or even restores relationships, and empowers parties and parents to make their own decisions.

We Believe:

Families deserve better than courtroom battles that drain their finances and traumatize their children.

Parents should control their family's future, not judges who don't know them or the facts.

Mediation, when implemented strategically, creates better long-term outcomes than litigation.

Faith guides our work, but our doors are open to all families regardless of belief, the same as Christ's love.

Children thrive when their parents demonstrate love, respect, and cooperation - especially when in conflict.

Every family's situation is unique and deserves personalized, compassionate attention. That cannot be achieved in one day in Court.

Founded on Faith, Open to All

1 Corinthians 6:1-3 (NIV)"If any of you has a dispute with another, do you dare to take it before the ungodly for judgment instead of before the Lord's people? Or do you not know that the Lord's people will judge the world? And if you are to judge the world, are you not competent to judge trivial cases? Do you not know that we will judge angels? How much more the things of this life?

Christian Family Law Solutions was founded on this biblical principle—that believers should have access to wise counsel among their faith community to resolve disputes peacefully and faithfully.

But here's what's important: You don't have to share our Christian faith to benefit from our mediation services.

Like Christ taught us to love all people unconditionally, we welcome every family—regardless of race, religion, sexual orientation, gender identity, or background. The same respectful collaborative mediation process that serves our clients of faith works just as effectively for anyone willing to commit to peaceful resolution.

Our faith informs how we serve.
It doesn't limit who we serve.

Meet Barrett Thomas

Attorney and Mediator

Barrett Thomas

The Journey to CFLS

Barrett Thomas didn't start his career planning to become a family mediator. His path to founding Christian Family Law Solutions is a story of experience, awakening, and ultimately, a faith-driven calling to do better for families.

After representing thousands of family law clients through litigation, I realized I was part of a system that often hurt the very people it was supposed to help. I watched children be traumatized by toxic litigation between their parents, and worse, parents teach their children it was ok to address conflict with hate and disresepct. I watched affluent families go bankrupt over legal fees. I watched children's development stall while years of litigation dragged on and took precedent over their schooling and mental development. God called me to make a change. I now teach families to multiply love, not divide it! I help parents teach their children that respect and cooperation are the rifght path to resolve conflict. I help famlies get divroced, not broken. At CFLS we do divorce differently... dare I say kindly.

Today, Barrett combines his legal expertise with faith-based compassion to help Central Texas families avoid the trauma and expense of litigation.

At a Glance

15+ years legal experience.
Former police officer, prosecutor, and family law litigator.
SuperLawyer® (Multiple years)
Certified Texas Mediator
Divorced parent himself who learned the best practices in co-parenting though personal experience.
Current Master's Degree student in Marriage and Family Counseling.

Barrett's Career Journey

Early Career

Police Officer

Barrett began his professional life in law enforcement, earning both a Master's Peace Officer and Instructor's Certificate from the Texas Commission on Law Enforcement and a Master's Degree in Criminal Justice. This experience gave him investigative skills and a front-row seat to how family conflict impacts communities.

Prosecutor: First Assistant District Attorney

After law school at Texas Tech University, Barrett became a prosecutor, eventually rising to First Assistant District Attorney. He specialized in prosecuting cases involving crimes against women and children.

The turning point: Barrett noticed many victims had significant civil legal needs—custody disputes, protective orders, divorces—but no one was helping them navigate those issues.

Private Practice: Building Lighthouse Legal Services

Determined to help families on the civil side of the law, Barrett left prosecution and co-founded Lighthouse Legal Services, PLLC. The firm grew rapidly—expanding to six offices across Texas with over 20 employees and representing thousands of family law clients.

6Offices Across Texas
20+Employees
1000sClients Represented

Barrett was successful by traditional measures: SuperLawyer® for multiple years, "Best in Waco" for six consecutive years, Outstanding Young Alumnus from Hardin-Simmons University, and the G.O.L.D. award from Texas Tech Law School.

The Awakening

Litigation's Hidden Cost

But success came with a cost that kept Barrett up at night.

Year after year, he watched as well-meaning parents spent $30,000, $50,000, even $100,000 fighting in court. He saw children caught in the crossfire—forced to testify, subjected to evaluations, watching their parents battle in front of strangers.

He saw relationships destroyed beyond repair, not because people were bad, but because the adversarial litigation process made cooperation nearly impossible. Even when his clients "won," they often lost financially and emotionally. And the children? They always lost.

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A Faith-Driven Decision

Barrett felt called to make a radical change.

He made the decision to leave litigation behind entirely—to stop being part of a system that, despite his best intentions, often caused more harm than healing. Instead of arguing family cases in courtrooms, he would create a space where families could work together.

Barrett founded Christian Family Law Solutions to provide exactly what the biblical passage in 1 Corinthians 6 described: wise counsel among believers to resolve disputes peacefully. But he also opened the doors to all families, recognizing that everyone—regardless of faith—deserves a peaceful path forward.

Today

Mediator, Attorney & Counseling Student

Barrett is now a certified mediator and is currently pursuing a Master's degree in Marriage and Family Counseling. This unique combination—legal expertise, mediation certification, and therapeutic training—allows him to provide a truly holistic approach to family dispute resolution.

Since founding CFLS, Barrett has helped families across Central Texas avoid tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees while building healthy co-parenting foundations that benefit children for years to come.

Why Barrett's Personal Experience Matters

Barrett doesn't just understand family law from a lawyer's perspective—he understands it as a divorced co-parent.

Barrett is a proud father of twin boys from his first marriage. He successfully co-parented with his ex-wife, whom he now considers a friend. He has spent the last 17 years raising his two daughters with his wife, Charla, who is also an attorney.

This isn't theoretical for Barrett. He's lived it. He knows what it's like to navigate custody schedules, make joint decisions about children's wellbeing, and put aside personal hurt for the sake of the kids. He knows the temptation to fight, and he knows the peace that comes from choosing cooperation instead.

When Barrett sits down with families in mediation, he brings not only 15+ years of legal expertise, but also the hard-won wisdom of someone who has walked the same difficult path.

Professional Credentials & Recognition

Two decades of excellence in law, prosecution, and family advocacy

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Education

Currently Pursuing

Master of Marriage and Family Counseling
Texas Wesleyan University

Juris Doctor (J.D.)

Texas Tech University School of Law

Master's Degree

Criminal Justice
Tarleton State University

Bachelor's Degree

Hardin-Simmons University

Law Enforcement

Master Peace Officer & Instructor Certificates
Texas Commission on Law Enforcement

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Awards & Honors

SuperLawyer®

Multiple Years

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"Best in Waco"

6 Consecutive Years

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"Best in Abilene"

2 Years

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Outstanding Young Alumnus

Hardin-Simmons University (2019)

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G.O.L.D. Award

Texas Tech Law School (2017)

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Outstanding Young Lawyer

Abilene Young Lawyers (2014)

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Leadership Waco

Class of 2018

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Community Leadership & Service

Two decades of giving back to the legal profession and community

Legal Community

  • Former Director, State Bar of Texas
  • Former Director, Texas Bar Foundation
  • Former President, Texas Young Lawyers Association
  • Former Member, Region 8 Grievance Committee (State Bar of Texas)
  • Guest lecturer and teacher at various colleges and law enforcement academies

Community Organizations

  • Board Member, Mission Waco
  • Board Member, The Arc
  • Former Director, Advocacy Center for Crime Victims and Children
  • Former President, Hardin-Simmons University Board of Alumni
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Beyond the Office

Barrett's greatest love is his wife, Charla Thomas, and his family: twin sons Will and Aaron, daughter-in-law Sammie, daughters Ady and Lauren, and his latest greatest joy—granddaughter Parker.

When he's not mediating, Barrett is active in his church (Austin Avenue Methodist), enjoys working out, boating on Texas lakes, and sampling craft beers from breweries across the country.

Our Core Values

These principles guide every mediation session and every interaction

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Compassion Over Combat

We believe families deserve support, not adversarial battles. Our therapeutic approach prioritizes healing and cooperation over winning and losing.

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Children First, Always

Every decision we help families make is filtered through one question: "What's best for the children?" We protect kids from courtroom trauma and help parents build healthy co-parenting relationships.

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Empowerment & Control

You know your family better than any judge. We empower you to make your own decisions rather than having solutions imposed by the court system.

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Faith-Informed, Not Faith-Required

Our Christian values guide how we serve, but we welcome all families. Like Christ showed love to everyone, we serve everyone with equal compassion and respect.

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Transparency & Affordability

No surprise bills. No hourly billing traps. Session-based pricing means you always know what you're paying for, and our costs are dramatically lower than traditional litigation.

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Long-Term Success

We don't just end disputes—we teach families how to communicate and co-parent effectively for years to come. Our coaching continues beyond the signed agreement.

Why Families Choose CFLS

We're Different From Traditional Law Firms

❌ Traditional Law Firms

  • Adversarial "battle" mentality
  • Hourly billing with surprise costs
  • Cases drag on for 1-2+ years
  • Children testify in court
  • Judges make final decisions
  • Relationships often destroyed
  • $20K-$100K+ in legal fees

✅ CFLS Mediation

  • Collaborative partnership approach
  • Transparent session-based pricing
  • Resolved in weeks or months
  • Children protected from trauma
  • You maintain control
  • Co-parenting skills built
  • Save $20K-$70K in fees

The Bottom Line:

We help families resolve disputes peacefully, affordably, and with their children's wellbeing as the top priority. That's not what law firms do—it's what mediators do.

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